I’m a traditional girlie through and through, so I’m a traditional girlie through and through, so I never imagined saying “no” to hosting on my favorite holiday. But I’m slowly learning to choose what God is actually calling me to — not what other people’s expectations or guilt push me toward.

We weren’t designed to run ourselves into exhaustion. And honestly?

That’s what I’m looking forward to the most tomorrow…ending the night with peace, not burnout 😮‍💨🙌🏽🦃 

#thanksgiving #family #boundaries #christianmom #momlife #faithjourney
I felt led to share this because the reality is, f I felt led to share this because the reality is, for a lot of people, the holidays are a tough time. If you’ve been feeling guilty for wanting to sit Thanksgiving out, you don’t need a dramatic excuse. You need a clean, respectful boundary that protects your peace without creating unnecessary conflict.

They may be disappointed, but disappointment is not disrespect. Time and time again, Jesus modeled for us that you can love your people and still have boundaries. 

You don’t need to justify.
You do not need to over-explain.
You do not need to lie. 
You do not need to defend.

So let your “yes” be yes, and your “no” be no. (Matthew 5:37)

#thanksgiving #family #boundaries #personalgrowth #bibletruth
The holiday season brings joy, but it also brings The holiday season brings joy, but it also brings noise, pressure, and expectations.

Before you say yes to all the things this season brings, ask yourself: 

• Am I saying yes because I don’t want to disappoint someone?
• Do I actually have the time, energy, or finances for this?

God never designed us to carry everyone else’s expectations. You can love your family AND honor your capacity this season. Jesus did. (John 7:6)

Save this if it helps. 
Share this with a friend who needs the words ❤️ 

— Dani

#holidays #thanksgiving #family #jesus #christianwomen #boundaries
Thank God for sweater weather. My favorite 🥰🍂🌤️

“To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:… — Ecclesiastes‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬ ‭

#sundays #church #modeststyle #sweaterweather #momsover30
Our family movie nights will never be the same!! 🥹 Thank you so much @gianteagle for the gifts ❤️🍿 #GiantEaglePartner #movienight #family
Tis’ the Season for saving money on groceries!! Tis’ the Season for saving money on groceries!! @gianteagle has lowered prices on over 300 key grocery staples from now through the end of the year! Head to your local store to see what’s on sale this week and beyond ❤️🙌🏽🛒 

#GiantEaglePartner #groceries #family #momlife #savemoney
I love how God used something as simple as a puzzl I love how God used something as simple as a puzzle to bring His word to life:

“And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him...” - Romans 8:28

And to show me what trusting Him with all the pieces of my life actually looks like:

“I know the plans I have in mind for you, declares the LORD; they are plans for peace, not disaster, to give you a future filled with hope.” - Jeremiah 29:11

I’m learning that His timing is better. His plans are better. His will is better. And He’s not done assembling me yet 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽

#faith #christian #jesus #trustgod #godisgood
Because one thing I’m not afraid to do is go to Because one thing I’m not afraid to do is go to war with the enemy over my children!! I’m gone cover them each and every day because prayer works 🙏🏽❤️🚌

“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” - Psalms‬ ‭127‬:‭3‬ ‭ 

#momlife #boymom #christianmom #christianliving #prayerworks #jesus
Hi 👋🏽🥰 Lots of new faces around here, so Hi 👋🏽🥰 Lots of new faces around here, so I figured it was time for a little reintroduction! Swipe to read more about where I am, who I’m becoming, and what you can expect from me now.

I grew up hiding my faith because I didn’t want to be known as “the church girl.” That left me craving acceptance and validation in other ways. I strayed, but God is gently drawing me back — calling me to live my faith out loud.

Not as a perfect Christian. Just as a mom of 5, still figuring it out.

“Don’t be conformed to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds…” - Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭2‬ ‭

So this space is shifting a little — you’ll still see family life and mom moments, but you’ll also see more scripture, encouragement, modest fashion that’s anything but boring, and glimpses of what it looks like to live a Christ-centered life in the middle of motherhood.

This will be a space where faith feels normal, motherhood feels seen, and you feel encouraged.

If that sounds like something you need, stick around 🫶🏽 And if you’re a mom learning to anchor in God too, drop a ✝️ so I know I’m not alone. ☺️ 

#christian #christianliving #christianmom #momlife #faith #jesus
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By: Danielle Skeaton

How to Stop Eating Out and Start Meal Planning

Tired of wondering what your family will eat for dinner every night? That was exactly how I felt a few years ago.

We were blowing all of our money eating takeout because I was so disorganized and stressed about meals. Literally deciding on dinner on the spot almost every night.

It made me hate cooking. Plus, our grocery bill was so out of control I hated to even think about how it much we were spending each month on food.

So I knew that if I was going to stick to a food budget, I needed to get ALL of our meals under control.

I used these simple meal planning tips, in the beginning, to cut our grocery bill in HALF, stay on a budget, and finally stop overspending.

1. Plan around your schedule.

Before you sit down to start meal planning, it’s a good idea to pull out your calendar and check your schedule so that you can plan your meals around your life.

Do you have an evening appointment coming up or kids’ little league practices twice a week?

You’re simply looking for long or busy days that may mess up your meal plan. Maybe you’ll need to meal prep ahead or eat leftovers. Use your schedule to guide what you put on your menu.

After you’ve reviewed your schedule, you can move on to Step #2.

2. Choose meals you already eat.

For some reason, most beginners start meal planning by spending hours on Pinterest to find new recipes to try. Big mistake.

Filling up your weekly menu with meals you’ve never made before isn’t going to keep you motivated to stay in your kitchen (and away from the drive-thru) if you’re not used to cooking.

Trust me on this. Going from eating fast-food 3-4 times a week to actually being in the kitchen and cooking 3-4 times a week is HARD. So you don’t need to go full throttle and become a home chef overnight.

The best thing you can do in the beginning is to eat meals you’re already making for the next few weeks until you get used to meal planning.

So grab a pen and paper write down as many easy meals you can have for dinner (even if you only know how to make sloppy joe and spaghetti—we all have to start somewhere!) and add 5-7 of your ideas to your menu.

Related: How to Simplify Dinner Planning With A Rotating Menu

3. Limit your side dishes.

There’s no need to prepare a feast for dinner every night. If you keep your sides simple, you’ll save a lot of time in the kitchen and money on your grocery bill.

I like to serve one or two with dinner every night. Some of our favorite super-simple side dishes include:

  • Baked Beans
  • Fresh or Frozen Veggies
  • Steamed Rice
  • Fresh Fruit
  • Mashed Potatoes
  • Salad
  • Dinner Rolls
  • Cornbread
  • French Fries

Now, it’s your turn to come up with your own (or use mine!). Then you can pair your side dish ideas with the simple dinner ideas that you’ve chosen for your menu from Step #2.

4. Put your breakfast and lunch on autopilot.

Now that we got dinner out the way, you’re probably wondering what we should do about breakfast and lunch! And to be honest, it is SO much easier just to put your breakfast and lunch on autopilot when you’re a beginner at this.

What I mean is, you want to plan to eat the same things until you get used to meal planning for a few weeks.

For instance, you can choose to eat ready-to-go meals like cereal and bagels or make eggs & toast for breakfast. And for lunch, you can plan to eat leftovers from the night before or pack sandwiches and fresh fruit.

So choose 2 to 3 options for easy breakfast and lunch meals for now—that way you can completely focus all of your energy on planning for dinner each week and avoid getting overwhelmed.

5. Make a grocery list.

Now that you know what meals your family is going to eat, it’s time to turn your menu into a grocery list. It’s a good idea to make a grocery list and meal plan at the same time so you’ll know what you need to buy from the store.

And as you’re making your grocery list, don’t forget to check your pantry, freezer, and fridge to make sure you’re not buying items you already have.

Take it from me, doing this now will save you a TON of time, money, and frustration trying to figure out if you have ketchup or not at home when you’re all the way at the store.

That wasn’t so bad, was it?!

I hope you see just how easy meal planning can actually be each week! When you stick to planning meals your family already loves, there’s no need to drive yourself crazy trying to find new recipes to serve every night—you can actually do this one meal at a time!

I also recommend that you schedule any meals requiring fresh ingredients (like produce or herbs) earlier in the week—so they don’t go bad before you get a chance to eat them—and plan to eat leftovers towards the middle or end of the week.

The only thing left to do now is to go shopping for your groceries! Choose one day to buy all of your groceries so you’re not spending more time (and money) shopping than you have to.

And I do NOT suggest meal planning and grocery shopping on the same day. It’s way easier if you can keep these days separate until you find your routine!

More Meal Planning Tips:

  • How to Simplify Dinner Planning With A Rotating Menu
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I’m a traditional girlie through and through, so I’m a traditional girlie through and through, so I never imagined saying “no” to hosting on my favorite holiday. But I’m slowly learning to choose what God is actually calling me to — not what other people’s expectations or guilt push me toward.

We weren’t designed to run ourselves into exhaustion. And honestly?

That’s what I’m looking forward to the most tomorrow…ending the night with peace, not burnout 😮‍💨🙌🏽🦃 

#thanksgiving #family #boundaries #christianmom #momlife #faithjourney
I felt led to share this because the reality is, f I felt led to share this because the reality is, for a lot of people, the holidays are a tough time. If you’ve been feeling guilty for wanting to sit Thanksgiving out, you don’t need a dramatic excuse. You need a clean, respectful boundary that protects your peace without creating unnecessary conflict.

They may be disappointed, but disappointment is not disrespect. Time and time again, Jesus modeled for us that you can love your people and still have boundaries. 

You don’t need to justify.
You do not need to over-explain.
You do not need to lie. 
You do not need to defend.

So let your “yes” be yes, and your “no” be no. (Matthew 5:37)

#thanksgiving #family #boundaries #personalgrowth #bibletruth
The holiday season brings joy, but it also brings The holiday season brings joy, but it also brings noise, pressure, and expectations.

Before you say yes to all the things this season brings, ask yourself: 

• Am I saying yes because I don’t want to disappoint someone?
• Do I actually have the time, energy, or finances for this?

God never designed us to carry everyone else’s expectations. You can love your family AND honor your capacity this season. Jesus did. (John 7:6)

Save this if it helps. 
Share this with a friend who needs the words ❤️ 

— Dani

#holidays #thanksgiving #family #jesus #christianwomen #boundaries
Thank God for sweater weather. My favorite 🥰🍂🌤️

“To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:… — Ecclesiastes‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬ ‭

#sundays #church #modeststyle #sweaterweather #momsover30
Our family movie nights will never be the same!! 🥹 Thank you so much @gianteagle for the gifts ❤️🍿 #GiantEaglePartner #movienight #family
Tis’ the Season for saving money on groceries!! Tis’ the Season for saving money on groceries!! @gianteagle has lowered prices on over 300 key grocery staples from now through the end of the year! Head to your local store to see what’s on sale this week and beyond ❤️🙌🏽🛒 

#GiantEaglePartner #groceries #family #momlife #savemoney
I love how God used something as simple as a puzzl I love how God used something as simple as a puzzle to bring His word to life:

“And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him...” - Romans 8:28

And to show me what trusting Him with all the pieces of my life actually looks like:

“I know the plans I have in mind for you, declares the LORD; they are plans for peace, not disaster, to give you a future filled with hope.” - Jeremiah 29:11

I’m learning that His timing is better. His plans are better. His will is better. And He’s not done assembling me yet 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽

#faith #christian #jesus #trustgod #godisgood
Because one thing I’m not afraid to do is go to Because one thing I’m not afraid to do is go to war with the enemy over my children!! I’m gone cover them each and every day because prayer works 🙏🏽❤️🚌

“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” - Psalms‬ ‭127‬:‭3‬ ‭ 

#momlife #boymom #christianmom #christianliving #prayerworks #jesus
Hi 👋🏽🥰 Lots of new faces around here, so Hi 👋🏽🥰 Lots of new faces around here, so I figured it was time for a little reintroduction! Swipe to read more about where I am, who I’m becoming, and what you can expect from me now.

I grew up hiding my faith because I didn’t want to be known as “the church girl.” That left me craving acceptance and validation in other ways. I strayed, but God is gently drawing me back — calling me to live my faith out loud.

Not as a perfect Christian. Just as a mom of 5, still figuring it out.

“Don’t be conformed to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds…” - Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭2‬ ‭

So this space is shifting a little — you’ll still see family life and mom moments, but you’ll also see more scripture, encouragement, modest fashion that’s anything but boring, and glimpses of what it looks like to live a Christ-centered life in the middle of motherhood.

This will be a space where faith feels normal, motherhood feels seen, and you feel encouraged.

If that sounds like something you need, stick around 🫶🏽 And if you’re a mom learning to anchor in God too, drop a ✝️ so I know I’m not alone. ☺️ 

#christian #christianliving #christianmom #momlife #faith #jesus
No kids, just us ❤️ Big thank you to @gianteag No kids, just us ❤️ Big thank you to @gianteagle for giving these tired parents of five a day to ourselves. What a gift to enjoy each other, the game, and a big Buckeyes win over the Nittany Lions! OH...IO 😆🎉🏈🏟️
 
#marriedlife #parents #momanddad #dateday #buckeyes #ohiostate

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